Archive for the ‘News’ Category

2013:How Not to Fight When Money Gets Tight

               Studies show that the number one thing couples dread talking about is, no, not sex but — money.   Other studies reveal that even though women are out there in the work force in record numbers, when they marry, they still tend to turn over the […]

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From Our House to Yours: Wishing You a Love-filled New Year!

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10 New Year's Resolutions that Will Have Your Relationship Sizzling in 2013

  1)      As a couple, commit to working on your communication skills.  A year from now you will be amazed how your everyday way of interacting with each other has become joyful, respectful, and filled with great honesty tempered by kindness.  This means that you have to […]

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Newtown and Now — Hollidaysburg, PA: Please Guide Us to a Brave, New World or All I Want for Christmas is a Suit of Armour

                “And no one dared disturbed the sound of silence.” Paul Simon could not have sung a more fitting song than “The Sounds of Silence,” at the funeral of Victoria Soto, the brave, young teacher,who died trying to protect her young students.  I had just […]

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I Hear America Weeping: Bury My Heart at Sandy Hook

With visions and the reality of super storm Sandy still haunting the Northeast, we now are faced with another all too real nightmare : the mass slayings at Sandy Hook Elementary school. Life deals in metaphors and the name Sandy stood out in my mind.   I took a […]

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Jovan Belcher and Kasandra Perkins — When Love Turns Toxic

I was saddened to hear the news that Jovan Belcher, the Kansas City Chiefs linebacker, who was a former high school football star from West Babylon, shot his girlfriend to death in their home, before killing himself in front of three team officials at Arrowhead Stadium. This […]

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Hurricanes — Where the Force of God Crashes with the Force of Man

Police on guard at every gas station? I think this is as horrible a vision as any left by the havoc hurricane Sandy wrought. Have we become such an amoral, narcissistic, lawless society, that a short gas shortage reduces us to Dodge City? Had it been a […]

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Getting by with the Power of Love

In the aftermath of super storm Sandy, most of us are sadly in a Katrina state of mind, wondering if and when life will ever return to normal. I am blessed to say, that my power was restored last night, and that — for sure — was […]

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Let There Be Light — or Bring Your own Flashlight

I am eternally grateful to the powers that be, which allowed my home to remain totally intact, despite the wrath of Sandy. My prayers go out to all my friends and clients who did not fare so well. I am trying to be patient throughout these days […]

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We Had Our NY Minute…

And now, we must all pray and work together to make this NY minute a distant memory. It will take time, lots of it, and lots of hard work and patience, but New Yorkers are resilent and tenacious and have learned to face what they must face […]

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