Yesterday, I did a Soul Mate relationship reading for my client, Nancy, who was blessed to reconnect with the love of her life, after more than twenty years of separation. She was thrilled to death to be traveling across the country to see him, but she had had a bad marriage and a string of Cellmate relationships that had brought out the worst in her,and she was really scared that she might mess things up with him. I told her that she had to learn to watch her words, so that she and her new-found, long lost love would learn to always speak to each other in kind and loving words. I told her, she had to learn to say what she means and mean what she says without being defensive and without raising her voice. Then she said something quite brilliant, “I have to say what I mean without saying it mean.”
Imagine a world in which everyone said what they needed to say in a kind and compassionate way. Start today by watching your words. Say what you mean. Mean what you say. But, please, don’t be mean about it!
Cindi,
It is so true. We need to say the truth about how we feel and the fears that keep us from moving forward. If we all would just be open with the ones we love and explain our fears we would all be surprised how most of them were completely unfounded and held us back from our true self and living a much fuller and happier life.
Thank you for your truth.
God Bless!
Marjorie
I was amazed by your insight that the opposite of love is fear. That is so true, it had changed my entire perspective on people, things, events and life in general. I have come to realize that in order to love anyone and anything there must be no fear. What a revelation…thank you!!!
It is true. I have been paralayzed by fear and been in the most loving relationship I have ever known. It had its problems with our own issues, but I will never know how much my fear aided in the burning out of that relationship’s flame. I also do not know what her fear did to it as well. And because of fear we both lost our path. Fear is not only the opposite of love, it is also the enemy and the destructor.